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Boost Your Confidence, Meet Women Online & Dress Like a Man in 6 Steps

Looking like a dirt bag won’t do much for you in the confidence department when you’re trying to meet women. It’s time to get some style. Looking good on the outside will build your confidence from the inside. When you look good, you feel good and the women online and around you will notice. If you’ve never really been known as the style king and still have clothes from High School, it’s time to clean out the closet and get some new digs.

1. Look awesome.

If you have pictures of yourself on Tinder in a baseball hat that is tattered it shows that don’t care about your appearance. The way your present yourself really matters especially when it comes to online dating. If you have photos where you look like a slob in crumby clothes a women will think that she will have to dress you like she did her baby doll when was six. You don’t want to embarrass yourself by not knowing how to dress like a man.

 2. Pay attention to style

Check out Ask Men, The Art of Manliness, men’s magazines or even Pinterest. I know you thought it was only for women but there are some styling' man pictures on there. Look around when you are getting coffee or at the club. What are the other guys wearing? Who are the ladies checking out? The guy who knows how to dress? You betcha. Looking good will instantly boost your confidence.

 3. Dress like the mannequin

Check out what the window display looks like. The mannequin is wearing specific clothes for a reason, because it looks good. Try on what it’s wearing. If it’s not a good fit, don’t get it or get it tailored. You don’t need to break the bank and if you are tight on cash hit the thrift shop and invite a female friend along for some fashion advice. It doesn’t have to be mega expensive to get a few pieces, but make sure you try things on.

suit on mannequin

4. Invest in shoes

A woman can notice cheap shoes from a mile away. A good pair of shoes can make a not-so-great getup look even better. Jeans, a t-shirt and great shoes? Priceless. Get a pair you can wear with anything and everything. Think simple and classic.

5. Get a haircut

Go to the salon, check out the magazines they have and talk to the stylists. Ask them what would be a good cut for you. Let them show you some of their favorites. They live for hair and know what looks good. Listen to what they say; they know what they are talking about.

6. Get rid of they beard flowers.

Thankfully that phase is about over with, but if you have facial hair, keep it tidy fellas! And there is nothing like a smooth face on a women’s neck when you are up close and personal. Clean shave is really appreciated when you do get a date with that hottie.

Now take some pictures. After you got your hair did, and have a couple great new pieces it’s time to get some selfies. If you have a friend who is good with a smartphone camera, even better. It will show the ladies you actually put a little effort into your profile to look good. When you are online dating, initial attraction is the biggest part of it. Think about Tinder, that’s pretty much all you have to go on.


If your pictures are not up to par it will decrease your chances of meeting a women who deserves to be with a guy like you. Remember… when you look good on the outside you will have a better opportunity for women to get to know what you are like on the inside. Dina Z Colada is an online dating expert. Contact her for information about how private coaching can help you build your confidence and help you find the kind of sexy sweet woman you are looking for.

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