Will I Ever Find Love Again? 3 Steps You Can Take To Make It Happen

Have you recently gone through a breakup or a divorce? Do you find yourself thinking “Will I ever find love again?” Trust me, you are not alone! 

The dating scene can be exhausting. Meeting new people, small talk, and going through the motions. I’ve been there too. There are steps you can take to make this process easier and more enjoyable.

You’ll find love again when you start loving yourself. 

Think about it: how will somebody else love you if you don’t love yourself? Out of all relationships in life, the one you have with yourself is the most important. 

Your happiness and self-worth need to come from within. Depending on your partner to be the main source of happiness will leave you disappointed. 

The law of attraction can be applied here. When you are caught in a cycle of negativity and low self-esteem, you are going to attract partners who are operating on the same level. 

We make better decisions when we truly love ourselves, especially in our romantic lives. We choose to surround ourselves with people and places who make us truly happy. 

It doesn’t have to be complicated. You can start by applying simple steps each day towards a life of self-love.

Don’t Settle

Know what you are looking for and don’t settle for less.

In the search for true love, we can be so desperate to be loved that we end up settling for less than we deserve. You might start to believe that the partner you seek doesn’t exist. That you have to deal with what you get. The good news? Those thoughts are false!

There is a partner out there who will remember every detail down to your favorite color. One who will change your outlook on love. 

 When you are active in the dating scene, keep in mind that not everyone is meant for you. You might have to weed through a couple of choices before finding Mr. Right and that is OK.

You have a responsibility to yourself to make sure your needs and desires are being met. That you are happy, loved, and appreciated in your relationship. Stay patient and stay positive!

Authenticity 

To find true love, being your most authentic self is key. Studies have found that authentic people are happier, have higher self-esteem, and are in better relationships. 

You want to find a partner who will love you through every season - the highs and the lows. Portraying what you think your partner wants often leaves you in relationships that don’t serve you. 

Being the real and raw you can seem intimidating. After all, it’s human nature to seek the approval of others, especially from those that we love. This gets easier with time and practice and I can promise you the reward is more than worth it! 

Narrow down on what you are truly seeking in a relationship and don’t settle until you find it. 

Be optimistic in the dating scene and remember true love exists! Knowing your love language can help you get what you want in relationships.