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Feel Feminine With These 4 Womanly Steps

Women Who Are Good With Men Know How To Feel Feminine.

Being feminine isn't about changing yourself, it's more about getting into your sensual-receptive nature. It's biological.

Our bodies are physically designed to be receptive to men— and they like it. When you embrace it yourself, you will love it too.

If you want to have men swooning from Bumble all you need to do is follow these simple tips you can start practicing today.

How To Feel Feminine Is A State Of Mind— By Using Your Body.

You can use your brain to focus on your physical body. When you do, these men won't be able to help but focusing their attention on you.

Every man craves to be with a feminine woman because it is complementary to his masculine nature.

Playing With Yourself Is Another Way You Can Feel Feminine

Yes, there is a little innuendo in their ladies, it is my second language, but that's not what I mean precisely.

Playing with yourself is getting into your physical aspects.

Have you ever taken the time to play with your hair? I don't mean to brush it, or comb it or curl it. I'm talking about playing with it for pleasure only. This kind of practice is especially good to do before a first date.

Take a few minutes to touch your scalp, and your hair and notice what feels fantastic to you. Find pleasure in the sensations.

Do you like your hair played with gently? Give it a little tug and see what that feels like. Check in with your body to see what could turn you on— what is turning you on.

Sink into the pleasure and allow yourself to notice your skin and how it feels.

You deserve pleasure.

Do this with your other body parts too. When you are sitting in traffic, put your fingers to your lips under your nose and gently stroke them.

Notice how it feels. Touch yourself, so it feels incredible.

It might be weird at first to touch yourself all over if you've never taken the time to do it before.

A great place to do this is also in the bath or the shower. You can suds yourself and do something different than—

Wash your hair, rinse, put on conditioner, scrub your face, clean your arms quickly, then your back, then your legs, then your feet, shave here, shave there, rinse out the conditioner, get out dry off, put on moisturizer, dry your hair . . .

You get the picture. You probably take a shower like a robot every day. You do the same thing day in and day out. Instead of taking the time out to get to know yourself and your body you are running on automatic.

Part of being feminine is knowing what feels sensual to you, and what your body likes. Being in touch with yourself physically is more important than you may realize.

Notice your body as often as possible so you can get in touch with what pleasures you— so when you meet a man you are interested in your body will already be used to receiving pleasure.

If you aren't used to receiving pleasure from anyone it may shock your nervous system and make you feel anxious or weird when a man does make his move.

You must get used to feeling pleasure so you can have pleasure with a man someday.

Being feminine is tapping into this on a day to day basis.

Get used to loving your body. It's the only body you've got. Appreciate it as you mean it.

Another Aspect Of Learning How To Feel Feminine Is To Become Your Very Own Masterpiece

Men are visual creatures we all know that. When a man likes you, he might send you a photo hoping that you will reciprocate. You might or you might not, but part of posting a selfie is feeling good about what you send.

Getting the right tools can help you look and feel like your best self. An essential part of your toolbox is your makeup arsenal. If you like going au natural, go-for-it as long as it makes you feel fabulous!

Just make sure you moisturize with high-quality skin cream every day and every night.

When you look good on the outside, it will help you feel good on the inside and men will fall in love with you.

So wear the right amount of makeup that makes you feel good. Sometimes less is more and knowing the right amount is part of knowing how to feel feminine.

I remember when I was in 5th grade my mom started letting me wear a little bit of makeup. When I went to 4-H camp for a week, guess who's makeup looked like John Water's sidekick, Divine the flamboyant drag queen?

The following description was me at an oblivious ten years of age.

I had heavy blue eyeshadow up to my eyebrows for a solid week. I thought I was hot stuff. But now I know I wasn't.

Weighing in at 50 pounds, I looked like a skinny, flat chested, poorly dressed drag queen in cut off shorts and an oversized t-shirt.

Yikes. I'm glad I grew out of that phase and now I know how to feel feminine, instead of just feeling awkward.

I did learn to tone it down, and I'm pretty satisfied with how I feel wearing only lipstick, mascara, and well-fitting soft-feeling clothes.

If you don't know how to apply makeup the right way, a great book is Bobby Brown's makeup book. She is classy and teaches amazing makeup tips for women.

Play around with some different looks and have a lovely little spa day with yourself and some girlfriends on a regular Saturday.

Read Inspiring Stories About Energy To Help You Know How To Feel Feminine

Being feminine doesn't mean being weak. The divine feminine is pure power. There is an ancient story of a tractor and a lake.

The tractor is doing the work and signifies masculine energy.

Metaphorical lakes are the feminine energy.

Lake energy is mighty in its calmness. It doesn't "do" anything. It just is. The lake is receptive and peaceful. Being feminine will help you connect with a man.

Masculine tractors chug to the lake and do all the work while the lake stays in its peaceful receptive mode.

The lake receives the tractor's wheels, body, and engine as it drives toward her. The lake is passive. Feminine.

The tractor drives into the lake and can't get out because the lake in it's passive receptive energy. The lake was more potent than the tractor— because it was the feminine energy.

When you think about doing more and more, remember sometimes it's better to do nothing. Rembmer the lake and what it can be— by doing nothing. Power lies in being receptive.

Take the time out of your life to be peaceful and get in touch with yourself and learn to receive. When you learn to feel pleasure in your everyday life, you will automatically become more feminine, and this is a good thing.

If you want to learn more about loving yourself and attracting love, get yourself some love coaching!

 

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