A failed relationship doesn’t define your future or you and positive heartbreak quotes can help you along the way

It is hard to go through a breakup, divorce or you lose someone you deeply love and care for. Especially when you are fresh out of the relationship it may feel like you will never feel better again, but keeping yourself positive and focused on feeling better can help ease the pain.

YourTango found in a survey that 64 percent of participants have been obsessed about a past relationship.

I understand your pain, I’ve been there are so has almost everyone else reading this. The pain after a breakup is excruciating, and you feel like you have been torn in half and lost a sense of yourself.

One way to have broken heart motivation is to read heartbreak quotes that lift you up!

Sometimes having a bad breakup is the best thing you can do to find a man who is compatible, loves you as you love him, respects you, and rocks your world between the sheets.

You can find goodness in these positive heartbreak quotes that are here for your pleasure. And you will feel healthy and happy again.

I hope these inspiring quotes from sad, heartbroken people who found their way back to love will help you find your way of enjoying yourself and the relationship you deserve.

Sometimes word of comfort for a broken heart can help your heart heal after a breakup.

Sometimes the person you really need is the one you didn't think you wanted.
—Unknown

A person that you never expected may be perfect for you. So keep your options to someone who may not be your “normal.”

—Dina Colada

When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness; instead keep your head up high and gaze into heaven for that is where your broken heart has been sent to heal.
—Unknown

My grandmother used to tell me, “Look up at the stars, and you will see things that you never imagined.” I asked her what she meant, and she gave me a wink and a smile. Maybe that was what she was talking about.

If your love does not work for that person, it just means that someone else loves you more.
—Unknown

I wonder who your partner will be? Imagine what your perfect partner will be like? What will he smell like? Act like? Let yourself embrace the unknown and savor the waiting.

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious of who you open your heart to.
—Unknown

Forgiveness and love affirmations help attract love into your life.

Heartbreak can be a good time for us to get ready for romance. Love doesn’t have to be rushed and we can allow ourselves time for the next guy and not rush. Divine timing is at work for your highest good.

Let your tears come. Let them water your soul.
—Eileen Mayhew

Don’t be afraid to cry. Tears help not only water your soul, but they also cleanse your soul.

Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle; love is a war; love is growing up.
—James Baldwin

Nobody ever said love was boring and don’t we know it!

—Dina Colada

There are more techniques than positive quotes that can help lift your spirit and change your life!

I want to be remembered as the girl who always smiles even when her heart is broken, and the one that could always brighten up your day even if she couldn't brighten her own.
—Unknown

Positive heartbreak quotes can inspire us to move on from an ex. So here are some more!

When we get out of our pajamas after a breakup, get out there and smile at someone new, it can brighten our day and his.

—Dina Colada

When you remember how hard it is to change yourself, you begin to understand what little chance we have of changing others.
—Unknown

If things didn’t work out with the last boyfriend, remember you can’t change the next boyfriend either.

—Dina Colada

The act of forgiveness is the act of returning to the present time. And that's why when one has become a forgiving person and has managed to let go of the past, what they've done is they've shifted their relationship with time.
—Caroline Myss

It’s time to forgive the past, focus on the present, and get ready for Mr. Right.

—Dina Colada

Stop focusing on Mr. Non-commital, and find a man that's cherishes and supports you— instead of making you feel insecure.

Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they're trying to find someone who's going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.
—Anthony Robbins

If you want a relationship, imagine what you have to give. Love, understanding, acceptance, sensuality, and allowing.

—Dina Colada

Focusing on your positive aspect will help you find a great relationship.

Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it is letting go.
—Herman Hesse

The one thing you can take away from lost love is the lessons that are there for you, and know that you will get to a place that feels better than you could ever imagine. You can join Dina Colada's private breakup support group for women here!