All of my top secrets are out! Are you sure you really want to know what drives men wild?

They are not all sexual, but you can bet that any man can find a way to make just about anything about sex.

And when he is driven crazy by these things you do, that is when he will pursue you, romance you, kiss you the way you want him to kiss you and commit to you. I’ve gotten some info from the guys over at Reddit about what they want women to know.

Sometimes just a plain ole tank top and regular panties are a huge turn-on. Granny panties are not what not drives men wild— you get the drift.

This means you’ve gotten to the no-pants on stage already and he doesn’t need you to look like a lingerie model 24/7.

I'm not mad means I'M NOT MAD! Said adavis...

What drives men wild the wrong way is asking a question over and over and over.

Here’s an example of one Reddit guy’s conversation with his girlfriend.

That's true enough for women, too being misunderstood. It's especially annoying for those of us who suffer from Bitchy Resting Face.

"What's wrong?"

"Nothing."

"No, really. What's wrong?"

"Really, nothing."

"You look upset."

"Well, I'm not. Really. I swear there's nothing wrong."

"Well, you know you can always talk to me about anything."

"I appreciate that."

"...so what's wrong?"

"Nothing."

"Come on. You can tell me."

"WELL, RIGHT NOW YOU'RE BEING F*$3#2g ANNOYING."

So if you think he’s mad, and ask him once and he says he’s not mad, then it means he’s not mad.

You don’t need to ask the same question 3 more times because that can irritate him. It would irritate me. This will drive a man wild in the wrong way.

Men are pretty obvious when they speak, so listen up. Listening is a turn on, and being repetitive is not.

What Drives Men Wild Is When You Let Him Relax After Work

heavy_operator said Sometimes we just need that downtime during the week. Maybe for an hour or so after we get home, we just need to relax.

I just spent 14 hours working my ass off. It's not that I love you any less, I just don't want to poison you with the stress I gained from that day.

I'll tell you about the day if you ask, but please don't get on me as soon as I get home. Give me those few minutes to myself to clean up, get comfortable, and drink something cool.

So don’t bombard your man the minute he walks in the door. Men need man-cave time to recover from the day. Doing this actually gives his body time to replenish his testosterone, and he needs this to be manly, and don’t you like the manly parts about him? I know I sure do.

What Drives Men Wild Is When You Pay Attention To What He Does

MarkNUUTTTT said It is almost impossible for me to say "I love you." It baffles me that my countless actions don't tell you I love her. I don't get it at all. Words are pretty meaningless, my actions cannot be faked or be a lie. Much more meaningful to me.

So pay attention to your man’s actions. What does he do for you or with you? Men generally aren’t as emotive as women, so when he helps you carry in the groceries, or gives you a hug when he sees you, or calls you, that might be his way of saying, “I care for you, think about you, and love you.

relationships aren’t black and white, and learning through relationships is one way for us to have a better understanding of ourselves and the men we care about. One of my favorite books that helped me understand my relationships is this one

The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman.

If you read it, you will have so much more understanding of yourself and the men, and even your friends and your family in your life. And when you understand a man this is what drives men wild— The right way! These tips will make him want you.