How can I make him fall in love with me?

One thing I've learned in my relationships and years of coaching is that you can't make a man DO anything. You can, however, inspire him to love you.

Inspiration. That is the key.

Why do men fall in love with other women, and not you? I have coached and interviewed hundreds of men, and there are several things that holds true for all of them.

A solid masculine man falls in love with a woman who is unique

There is just something different about her. And one thing that is very important to men that makes her different from the rest is that she makes him feel respected.

When a woman makes a man feel respected, it makes him see her as unique and is another reason why do men fall in love

Respect is huge for men, and emasculation is not. Many women emasculate a man and don't even realize it. And talking about respect in your online dating profile is a huge thing for men.

Knowing this one thing will help you answer the question that has been asked for thousands of years why do men fall in love?

Emerson Eggerichs, the best-selling author of Love and Respect, created a study that involved 400 men. Eggerichs asked these men one single question.

If you were forced to choose one of the following, which would you prefer to endure…to be left alone and unloved in the world, or to feel inadequate and disrespected by everyone?

74% of the men said they would rather feel alone than feel inadequate and disrespected.

Eggerich encourages women to give men what they need— respect. And he supports the idea that the lack of respect for men leads to divorce. Yikes.

Often, respect and love are seen as the same things for men and knowing this is one thing can give you an advantage over other women— because so many women don't realize how important it is to a man.

Why do men fall in love? There's got to be more to it than that. And you can learn how to do Bumble while you're at it.

A man falls in love with a woman that he is afraid to lose

He wants to get a commitment from her because he knows she has options and won't be mistreated ever for a second.

I used to work with a woman, and she had her husband wrapped around her finger. Any time he acted like a d-bag she would say firmly, "Do you want to get a divorce?"

And that would be the end of his grumbling because he knew she meant it and wouldn't deal with any anger issues coming her way.

Why else do men fall in love?

A man falls for a woman who keeps him on his toes and isn't a bore

Don't do the same old same old every single day of your life. If life becomes sleep-eat-work-repeat things will get stagnant. This creates apathy and boredom, and that is the last thing you want in the fabulous relationship you want to create. So . . .

Here some 8 things you can do to keep your relationship super fresh

Kiss him a different way.
Don't scramble to answer every text in five seconds. A man can wait, and it will make him wonder.
Spend time with your friends by yourself.
Go to the arcade.
Have date nights that aren't the usual. Take him to an action film instead of drama.
Ask him profound questions such as— If money wasn't an issue where would you like to go and why?
Read erotica with your partner this will create a passionate emotional bond.
Try reverse cowgirl.

Mix it up, ladies!

These are just a few things you can try out to add some spice to your relationship.

What are the other reasons for why do men fall in love?

A man will fall in love with a woman who makes his life easier not harder

If you are high maintenance and make outrageous demands on him, this will only push him away instead of bringing him closer.

Instead of criticizing him when he makes a mistake— You appreciating him when he does things right will bring him closer.

Men fall in love with women who like to show him off and are proud of his accomplishments

Men like it when you brag about him to your friends.

So many women in relationships only talk about the problems in their relationships with their friends. How about talking about the positives for a change.

Positivity breeds more positivity. And understanding why do men fall in love will bring more love into your life

Understanding men and relationships and love isn't something we were taught by our diffusional families and friends, but learning how to fulfill each other's needs is something we can learn.

Love you bunches!

Dina